Free DIY Divorce Guide

England & Wales

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Based on GOV.UK (Jan 2026) · Not legal advice · Learn more

DIY Divorce Process: Step-by-Step

This guide details the no-fault divorce process for marriages and civil partnerships in England & Wales.

Your Divorce Timeline

Minimum · Average -

  1. Step 1

    Submit Application

    Apply online via GOV.UK or by post (Form D8)

    Day 1
  2. Step 2

    Court Issues Certificate

    Court processes application and notifies spouse

  3. Waiting Period

    20-Week Cooling Off

    Mandatory reflection period before proceeding

  4. Step 3

    Conditional Order

    Apply for provisional divorce decree

  5. Waiting Period

    6 Weeks + 1 Day

    Final waiting period before completion

  6. Complete

    Final Order

    Marriage legally ends. Update your records.

    Divorced

Eligibility & Preparation

Before applying for divorce or dissolution:

  • Married or in a civil partnership for 1+ year (from anniversary).
  • Marriage or civil partnership legally recognised in the UK (including same-sex).
  • You or your spouse/partner reside or are domiciled in England/Wales.
  • Irretrievable breakdown (no proof needed under no-fault divorce).
  • Gather: Marriage/civil partnership certificate (translated if foreign), proof of name changes (e.g., deed poll), spouse/partner details (name, address, DOB, nationality), children's details (if under 18). If spouse's address is unknown, see GOV.UK guidance.

Costs

£612 court fee (2026; check GOV.UK for updates). Joint applications require one fee, but both must apply for Help with Fees if eligible. No refunds post-issuance.

Important: If facing domestic abuse, seek urgent help (e.g., non-molestation orders) via GOV.UK. Mediation may be exempt.

Divorce Steps

Step Action Timeline Tips
1. Apply Submit via GOV.UK or post (Form D8, HMCTS, PO Box 12726, Harlow CM20 9QZ). Welsh forms available. Day 1 Online is faster. Joint apps need both signatures.
2. Court Issues Court sends certificate; spouse notified. 1–2 weeks Sole: Spouse responds in 14 days.
3. Non-Response Non-responsive spouse: Court may proceed. Disputes (e.g., jurisdiction): Seek legal advice. 1–3 months Use GOV.UK for tracing.
4. Conditional Order Apply after 20-week cooling-off period. 20 weeks Double-check documents to avoid delays.
5. Final Order Apply 6 weeks + 1 day after conditional order. 6 weeks Marriage ends. Update your records.

Finances & Property

Divorce doesn't automatically settle finances. Options:

  • Consent Order: Legally binds agreement (£60, Form D81, online/post). Draft via mediation/solicitor.
  • Financial Order: Court decides if you can't agree (£313, Form A).
  • Pensions: Options include sharing, attachment, or earmarking. Consult MoneyHelper.
  • Mediation: £100–£500/session via FMC.
  • Spousal Maintenance: Court-ordered if needed.

Warning: Without a financial order, future claims are possible. Consider tax implications (e.g., capital gains on property) and benefits changes (e.g., universal credit).

Children Arrangements

Steps for custody and maintenance:

  • Parenting Plan: Free templates via CAFCASS.
  • Mediation: Mandatory MIAM (£80–£200), exempt for abuse/urgency.
  • Child Arrangements Order: Court application (£263).
  • Child Maintenance: Family-based or statutory via GOV.UK calculator. CMS if agreements fail.

Regional Differences

Scotland

Simplified divorce (£134, Form SD1, no kids under 16). Ordinary: £172. ScotCourts

Northern Ireland

£280 fee, no-fault/fault-based options. NIDirect

International Divorces

  • Confirm UK jurisdiction (residence/domicile).
  • Translated marriage certificate (certified).
  • Legal advice for EU (post-Brexit, Brussels II) or international assets.
  • Contact HMCTS for guidance.

What if Things Go Wrong?

  • Appealing Orders: Apply within 21 days; seek legal advice.
  • Fraud: Misrepresentation (e.g., false details) can void orders.
  • Delays: Contact HMCTS for updates on your application.

Emotional & Financial Support

Common Pitfalls

  • Incomplete forms: Double-check all details before submitting.
  • Non-responsive spouse: Can add 1–3 months to the process.
  • Unresolved finances: Risk future claims without a consent order.
  • Children disputes: Mediation is mandatory unless exempt.
  • International cases: Always seek specialist legal advice.

Glossary

No-Fault Divorce
No proof of fault needed. Introduced April 2022.
Conditional Order
Provisional decree after 20 weeks (formerly Decree Nisi).
Final Order
Ends marriage/partnership after 6 weeks (formerly Decree Absolute).
Consent Order
Legally binds financial agreement between parties.
MIAM
Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting - mandatory before court.

Case Study: Amicable Divorce

Jane & Tom's Story

Married 5 years with one child, they filed a joint application (£612). They used mediation (£300) for a parenting plan and consent order (£60).

Total Cost

£972

Timeline

10 months

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Frequently Asked Questions

Is DIY divorce free?

£612 court fee (2026; check GOV.UK). Fee exemptions via Help with Fees. Mediation (£100–£500), orders (£60–£313).

How long does it take?

Minimum 26 weeks. Average 9–14 months. Delays from errors, disputes, or non-responsive spouse.

Can my spouse refuse?

No-fault divorce (2022) prevents contesting, except on technicalities (e.g., jurisdiction).

What about kids/property?

Divorce only ends marriage. Finances: Consent order (£60). Kids: Court order (£263). Mediation first.

Joint vs. sole application?

Joint: Both apply, faster, both get updates. Sole: One applies, spouse responds. Both £612.

Spouse abroad?

Possible if UK-domiciled. Translated certificate, legal advice needed.

Do I need a solicitor?

Not for simple cases. Solicitors (£1,000–£10,000) for complex finances/disputes.

What if my ex won't agree to finances?

Court can decide via financial order (£313). Mediation recommended first.

Can I divorce if married abroad?

Yes, if UK-recognized and jurisdiction applies. Provide translated certificate.

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