Free DIY Divorce Guide
England & Wales
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Based on GOV.UK (Jan 2026) · Not legal advice · Learn more
DIY Divorce Process: Step-by-Step
This guide details the no-fault divorce process for marriages and civil partnerships in England & Wales.
Your Divorce Timeline
Minimum · Average -
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Step 1
Submit Application
Apply online via GOV.UK or by post (Form D8)
Day 1 -
Step 2
Court Issues Certificate
Court processes application and notifies spouse
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Waiting Period
20-Week Cooling Off
Mandatory reflection period before proceeding
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Step 3
Conditional Order
Apply for provisional divorce decree
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Waiting Period
6 Weeks + 1 Day
Final waiting period before completion
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Complete
Final Order
Marriage legally ends. Update your records.
Divorced
Eligibility & Preparation
Before applying for divorce or dissolution:
- Married or in a civil partnership for 1+ year (from anniversary).
- Marriage or civil partnership legally recognised in the UK (including same-sex).
- You or your spouse/partner reside or are domiciled in England/Wales.
- Irretrievable breakdown (no proof needed under no-fault divorce).
- Gather: Marriage/civil partnership certificate (translated if foreign), proof of name changes (e.g., deed poll), spouse/partner details (name, address, DOB, nationality), children's details (if under 18). If spouse's address is unknown, see GOV.UK guidance.
Costs
£612 court fee (2026; check GOV.UK for updates). Joint applications require one fee, but both must apply for Help with Fees if eligible. No refunds post-issuance.
Important: If facing domestic abuse, seek urgent help (e.g., non-molestation orders) via GOV.UK. Mediation may be exempt.
Divorce Steps
Finances & Property
Divorce doesn't automatically settle finances. Options:
- Consent Order: Legally binds agreement (£60, Form D81, online/post). Draft via mediation/solicitor.
- Financial Order: Court decides if you can't agree (£313, Form A).
- Pensions: Options include sharing, attachment, or earmarking. Consult MoneyHelper.
- Mediation: £100–£500/session via FMC.
- Spousal Maintenance: Court-ordered if needed.
Warning: Without a financial order, future claims are possible. Consider tax implications (e.g., capital gains on property) and benefits changes (e.g., universal credit).
Children Arrangements
Steps for custody and maintenance:
- Parenting Plan: Free templates via CAFCASS.
- Mediation: Mandatory MIAM (£80–£200), exempt for abuse/urgency.
- Child Arrangements Order: Court application (£263).
- Child Maintenance: Family-based or statutory via GOV.UK calculator. CMS if agreements fail.
Regional Differences
Scotland
Simplified divorce (£134, Form SD1, no kids under 16). Ordinary: £172. ScotCourts
Northern Ireland
£280 fee, no-fault/fault-based options. NIDirect
International Divorces
- Confirm UK jurisdiction (residence/domicile).
- Translated marriage certificate (certified).
- Legal advice for EU (post-Brexit, Brussels II) or international assets.
- Contact HMCTS for guidance.
What if Things Go Wrong?
- Appealing Orders: Apply within 21 days; seek legal advice.
- Fraud: Misrepresentation (e.g., false details) can void orders.
- Delays: Contact HMCTS for updates on your application.
Emotional & Financial Support
- Emotional: Samaritans (116 123), Relate (£30–£80).
- Financial: MoneyHelper - free impartial advice.
- Legal: Free advice via Resolution.
- Community: Discussions on r/LegalAdviceUK (not legal advice).
Common Pitfalls
- Incomplete forms: Double-check all details before submitting.
- Non-responsive spouse: Can add 1–3 months to the process.
- Unresolved finances: Risk future claims without a consent order.
- Children disputes: Mediation is mandatory unless exempt.
- International cases: Always seek specialist legal advice.
Glossary
- No-Fault Divorce
- No proof of fault needed. Introduced April 2022.
- Conditional Order
- Provisional decree after 20 weeks (formerly Decree Nisi).
- Final Order
- Ends marriage/partnership after 6 weeks (formerly Decree Absolute).
- Consent Order
- Legally binds financial agreement between parties.
- MIAM
- Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting - mandatory before court.
Case Study: Amicable Divorce
Jane & Tom's Story
Married 5 years with one child, they filed a joint application (£612). They used mediation (£300) for a parenting plan and consent order (£60).
Total Cost
£972
Timeline
10 months
Frequently Asked Questions
Is DIY divorce free?
£612 court fee (2026; check GOV.UK). Fee exemptions via Help with Fees. Mediation (£100–£500), orders (£60–£313).
How long does it take?
Minimum 26 weeks. Average 9–14 months. Delays from errors, disputes, or non-responsive spouse.
Can my spouse refuse?
No-fault divorce (2022) prevents contesting, except on technicalities (e.g., jurisdiction).
What about kids/property?
Divorce only ends marriage. Finances: Consent order (£60). Kids: Court order (£263). Mediation first.
Joint vs. sole application?
Joint: Both apply, faster, both get updates. Sole: One applies, spouse responds. Both £612.
Spouse abroad?
Possible if UK-domiciled. Translated certificate, legal advice needed.
Do I need a solicitor?
Not for simple cases. Solicitors (£1,000–£10,000) for complex finances/disputes.
What if my ex won't agree to finances?
Court can decide via financial order (£313). Mediation recommended first.
Can I divorce if married abroad?
Yes, if UK-recognized and jurisdiction applies. Provide translated certificate.
Resources
Official Sources
- GOV.UK Divorce - Official forms and guidance.
- Form D8 - Divorce application form.
- Help with Fees - Fee exemptions.
- ScotCourts - Scotland divorces.
- NIDirect - Northern Ireland.
- HMCTS - International cases.
Support Services
- Citizens Advice - Free legal advice.
- Relate - Counselling (£30–£80).
- Samaritans - Emotional support (116 123).
- MoneyHelper - Financial advice.
- FMC - Find mediators.
Useful Tools
- Child Maintenance Calculator - Estimate payments.
- Financial Guide - Splitting assets.
- Pension Sharing Guide - Understanding options.